What do I call for to win married within New York State?

I'm 20 years old and she's 18 years old, we have a 8 month infirm baby boy. We want to get married in the US but I'm an risky immigrant and she's a legal american citizen and we don't know what we need to get married. We want to receive married on august 1st because I'm going back to my country So what do I need to make her a permitted mexican citizen? what does she need to make me a legal american citizen? what do we obligation to get married? We have no criminal records, uneducated people please don't answer my question.
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A PARTNER THAT YOU WANT TO WILLINGLY MARRY...DEPENDING ON YOUR AGE, A PARENT'S SIGNATURE...ETC...
A hole in your person in charge would be a god start. Sorry I had to say that. I'm not a fan of nuptials. I'm a legally ordained minister and I was going to perform marriage but then I got thinking. 75% of all marriage end in divorce. I didn't want to help the criminal lawyer get richer so I decided not to marry people. The one and only good things it does is get you lower insurance rates and a bigger tax return.

I do want to preference you and yours the happiest of times and hope you have a great life with your child.
The best item to do is contact vital records and ask them what documents does a non resident of US need to marry a citizen of US. Every state is diffrent to what chronicles are needed. Some ask for a ss# and others do not. And you can also ask your pastor at church,what documents you need.

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