Immigrant wife could be a scammer?
I married a lady in Nigeria. I pretty much paid for adjectives her papers to become a citizen. It was so difficult to get the money to pay for everything. I'm by no scheme rich or well off, but I do work and do well for myself. I thought that I would find someone to be my ardent support when she came along. We agreed that would be her primary role when we marry.
So many sweet things were said and I thoroughly explained my financial situation to her. I feel that nothing should be a mystery to her when she comes to live with me here in the US.
Well things speedily went askew. She arrived and it was not long till I started to see signs of disinterest in me. She said she would be affectionate, but she wouldn't touch me much anymore when she arrived. Mind you that I go to Nigeria for a week, so she knows me. She was all over me over within. Months had passed and she showed no signs of wanting to be affectionate. She claims that it is her culture not to be affectionate. Wow! Is she bold or what?
She is an undercover flirt. I have trouble with strangers trying to hit on her when we run certain places. She denies it of course. I try to explain how no to allow men to disrespect me by telling them that she is married. She promptly says that I am accusing her of being a prostitute.
My problem is that she is pregnant. She is really showing interest in other nation. She believes that she is set. I want to divorce her on grounds of sexual immorality. She has clearly married me and is having my infant to become a citizen of the US. She has broken every promise she made to me. She truly doesn't care for me. Can I wipe her out of my life? Can I divorce her? What can I do going on for getting the baby? Is it her baby to keep?
Also she have made connections with her Nigerian people here and she probably will try to come back to the US through them. Is this credible? She hasn't even been here for a year. It is Thanksgiving and she arrived in Feb. She is using the church to do all these things. The reality that she seemed to be a legitimate Christian is the only motivation I married her. I thought I would be safe from a scam.
Another thing I didn't mentions is that she was trying to gain people to believe that I was going to beat sooner this year. When she realized that that wasn’t working against me she stopped saying it. Well, I haven’t heard nearly it. Now she says that I want her to be my slave. If I don’t have money to do certain things approaching pay for every need she has day after day doesn’t say that I am treating her like a slave. She was dictum these things 2 months after she got here.
Damn, I am so tired of explaining the multitude of issue I go through with her. I involve advice.
Answers:
I'm no expert here, but I quality bad for the situation you're in.
She is obviously up to something, and it is possible she used you to capture into the United States and allowed herself to become pregnant so that in the case she is unable to hold her citizenship otherwise, her child will enable her to say.
The way she act isn't right, and so long as there wasn't anything else left out of the story.. she could very capably be just using you.
As far as I know (at least here in the US) it is trial to divorce her under any grounds you deem worthy. As to what would happen to her should you divorce her, I am unsure. I would suggest contacting a lawyer almost this or a marital court to see what they would suggest.
Try being reasonable as capably, don't walk into a marital court or up to a lawyer relating them you want her out of your life and to get rid of her... it could bring up foul tints for you. Instead, explain the situation and ensure they know that you just don't want to be used.. or stuck contained by an unhappy and ill-giving marriage that is essentially... a fraud.
HOLY CRAP!! why not just find a real wife that you actually know?
This happens frequently when citizens choose to import their spouse. Are you even indisputable the child is yours? Send her packing asap!
Hire a attorney and file for a divorce. You may even be able to file for an annulment on the grounds of fraud.
As for the babe-in-arms, once she has it, she is basically a permanent resident of the United States. She did what she have to do to get here and stay. Now she probably has dual citizenship in the US and contained by Nigeria. If she wants, she can do the same for your baby and cart it there anytime she feels like. Once your little one is in Nigeria, forget about getting it back. The authorities near do not care about American custodial issues.
Many people plunge for the same scam. People from these regions only want to come to America. They think that everyone here is rich and compared to them, we are. A lot of times, they form pack and get the women to prostitute themselves to middle-aged American men that appear lonely and desperately want companionship. She probably has a boyfriend in Nigeria that agreed to tolerate her marry you and have a child by you so that eventually he can get in the US also.
When you take a lawyer, also request for a paternity test. Also, take adjectives of this information to your church leader, i.e. the preacher or the deacons, and tell them that you think this woman is trying to scam them also so that the church will grant sanctuary to her relatives when they come here. I do not know of too many churches that would be willing to look chronological adultery and a fraudulent marriage. They may kick her out of the church altogether.
Because we live in America and soak up the life we lead, it also puts at a disadvantage for scams within third-world regions. My advice to you would once you have gotten away from this woman, try looking in your community for someone to teem that void. Don't let this experience turn you away from finding someone special.
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So many sweet things were said and I thoroughly explained my financial situation to her. I feel that nothing should be a mystery to her when she comes to live with me here in the US.
Well things speedily went askew. She arrived and it was not long till I started to see signs of disinterest in me. She said she would be affectionate, but she wouldn't touch me much anymore when she arrived. Mind you that I go to Nigeria for a week, so she knows me. She was all over me over within. Months had passed and she showed no signs of wanting to be affectionate. She claims that it is her culture not to be affectionate. Wow! Is she bold or what?
She is an undercover flirt. I have trouble with strangers trying to hit on her when we run certain places. She denies it of course. I try to explain how no to allow men to disrespect me by telling them that she is married. She promptly says that I am accusing her of being a prostitute.
My problem is that she is pregnant. She is really showing interest in other nation. She believes that she is set. I want to divorce her on grounds of sexual immorality. She has clearly married me and is having my infant to become a citizen of the US. She has broken every promise she made to me. She truly doesn't care for me. Can I wipe her out of my life? Can I divorce her? What can I do going on for getting the baby? Is it her baby to keep?
Also she have made connections with her Nigerian people here and she probably will try to come back to the US through them. Is this credible? She hasn't even been here for a year. It is Thanksgiving and she arrived in Feb. She is using the church to do all these things. The reality that she seemed to be a legitimate Christian is the only motivation I married her. I thought I would be safe from a scam.
Another thing I didn't mentions is that she was trying to gain people to believe that I was going to beat sooner this year. When she realized that that wasn’t working against me she stopped saying it. Well, I haven’t heard nearly it. Now she says that I want her to be my slave. If I don’t have money to do certain things approaching pay for every need she has day after day doesn’t say that I am treating her like a slave. She was dictum these things 2 months after she got here.
Damn, I am so tired of explaining the multitude of issue I go through with her. I involve advice.
Answers:
I'm no expert here, but I quality bad for the situation you're in.
She is obviously up to something, and it is possible she used you to capture into the United States and allowed herself to become pregnant so that in the case she is unable to hold her citizenship otherwise, her child will enable her to say.
The way she act isn't right, and so long as there wasn't anything else left out of the story.. she could very capably be just using you.
As far as I know (at least here in the US) it is trial to divorce her under any grounds you deem worthy. As to what would happen to her should you divorce her, I am unsure. I would suggest contacting a lawyer almost this or a marital court to see what they would suggest.
Try being reasonable as capably, don't walk into a marital court or up to a lawyer relating them you want her out of your life and to get rid of her... it could bring up foul tints for you. Instead, explain the situation and ensure they know that you just don't want to be used.. or stuck contained by an unhappy and ill-giving marriage that is essentially... a fraud.
HOLY CRAP!! why not just find a real wife that you actually know?
This happens frequently when citizens choose to import their spouse. Are you even indisputable the child is yours? Send her packing asap!
Hire a attorney and file for a divorce. You may even be able to file for an annulment on the grounds of fraud.
As for the babe-in-arms, once she has it, she is basically a permanent resident of the United States. She did what she have to do to get here and stay. Now she probably has dual citizenship in the US and contained by Nigeria. If she wants, she can do the same for your baby and cart it there anytime she feels like. Once your little one is in Nigeria, forget about getting it back. The authorities near do not care about American custodial issues.
Many people plunge for the same scam. People from these regions only want to come to America. They think that everyone here is rich and compared to them, we are. A lot of times, they form pack and get the women to prostitute themselves to middle-aged American men that appear lonely and desperately want companionship. She probably has a boyfriend in Nigeria that agreed to tolerate her marry you and have a child by you so that eventually he can get in the US also.
When you take a lawyer, also request for a paternity test. Also, take adjectives of this information to your church leader, i.e. the preacher or the deacons, and tell them that you think this woman is trying to scam them also so that the church will grant sanctuary to her relatives when they come here. I do not know of too many churches that would be willing to look chronological adultery and a fraudulent marriage. They may kick her out of the church altogether.
Because we live in America and soak up the life we lead, it also puts at a disadvantage for scams within third-world regions. My advice to you would once you have gotten away from this woman, try looking in your community for someone to teem that void. Don't let this experience turn you away from finding someone special.
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America! question going on for USA.?
can someone please tell me how to get in USA when im from another country? cus i want to study in attendance. my sistrs suggested nursing, but im not so sure about tht. :S Apply to the University of your choice. They will assist you with your visa. Find their website to get information Make sure you apply to...
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