I don't twig people's want of empathy for immigrant!?

I read all kinds of comments here about how adjectives illegals are lazy criminals, and how they want to take advantage of our resources and pinch away our jobs. Does this bother anyone but me? My best friend's boyfriend was brought here by his parents when he was 3- target it was not HIS choice. He grew up and went to school here, be a good student and wanted to go to college. Then his parents told him that because he be illegal he couldn't go. The guy can't get a assignment, a bank account, credit, NOTHING. They are planning to get married and they can't even find proper ID to do that. And guess what? He can't step back to Mexico either, with no family circle there, no place to stay and no money to survive. He doesn't even have the proper papers Mexico requires to get a career there. I have heard so masses sad stories like that and I can't believe that people give attention to life is just SO easy for illegals. I come up with that people have that hatred because they want to own someone to blame for their own problems.
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Illegals are breaking our laws buy one here. If they want to come here legaly OK. otherwise make them serve 6 momth at hard labor then deport them! If they come fund ilegaly again make it 12 months. ANOTHER sob story!
"Boo hoo ,my parents sneaked me into this country ILLEGALLY, feel sorry for me"!!
And WHO'S fault is it that he's have these problems? His ILLEGAL parents!
It is sad that his parents threw him into such a mess. If they would simply not have illegally immigrated here, here wouldn't have been a problem.

Or he could just live surrounded by the same way that his parents did, whatever that may hold been.

I don't understand all of the attempts at debating a non-issue. Illegal is unconstitutional and that's all there is to it. If the proper enforcements were surrounded by place, the family would have never bee allowed here in the first place so he wouldn't be contained by that mess. Therefore, the solution is further border protection.
Of course he can go back to mexico, so he can reapply legally.

And also if he have known that he was illegal back he was 18 then he could have applied for allowed status. Now he cannot because he is past 18.

No empathy at all. He is illegal. thats adjectives that matters.
No matter that it ruins his life. He is simply an illegal.
He should have been more proactive to find out his status up to that time he left school. Now he is just blamng his parents. Which make him a lazy illegal.
I don't understand how you can't take to mean my lack of empathy. That's like asking me to have empathy for a murderer or rapist. Illegals enjoy already broken our laws simply by coming here and then they commit further crimes,harm our citizens,drain our systems,steal jobs and then have the audacity to ask for more. What's not to grasp? It is his parents fault that he is in the situation he is in. The United States of America is the entity man wronged here. He is illegal and if found will be deported and banned from the US. We didn't do this to him. His criminal parents did. This is why most criminals do not involve their children in their criminal undertakings. And yes, entering the US illegally is a criminal offense.
That's because they are NOT immigrants. They are illegal alien criminals. They never applied to be immigrants. They be never accepted as immigrants. They ARE criminals.

Your best friend's boyfriend's parents are criminals and they have made him into a criminal too. You are right. He can't lawfully get ANYTHING because he isn't supposed to be here. He certainly CAN go put money on to Mexico and if he is deported, he won't go on his own terms but will be dumped there.

Life shouldn't be assured for criminals. We hate them BECAUSE they are criminals. I don't care about their problems. I hope their problems are so massive that they take off. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
If you want to see why do no lack no empathy for illegals look at this website below. Notice that the numbers are other rising and not falling down. This how much money US taxpayers have paid for illegals and the price tag keep getting larger and bigger every day.

http://www.immigrationcounters.com/
I don't take peoples ignorance for the laws of this country. They wouldnt have that problem if they come here legally.
Immigrants are a strain on the American economy, vigour care system, legal system, education system, etc.etc. It's not easy to have empathy when we ourselves are struggling to make ends meet. I know. if an unofficial immigrant gets a job and not a citizen, then I see a problem. looks similar to americans are too lazy to look for a job.
I think they are lazy criminals.

They are illegal here. in attendance is the criminal part.

they can do it the right way and become a citizen but they are too lazy to do that. to be precise the lazy part. His parents should have done the vital paperwork when they came. It is their fault he is in this position. He should apply for citizenship if he requests a job and to stay here

I have nothing against nation wanting to live here. But if they are not legally allowed to be here then it is not right.
sound like his parents created a real mess for him.

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Playing the "Harvard trump card" - whoop-de- freakin'-doo
Cry me a river. We cannot support the entire world. If things are so bad at home, why don't they work to change things within instead of invading US and demanding we accommodate them? Our hospitals, schools, social programs and entire infrastructure is crumbling under the weight of illegals. Your friend's boyfriend requirements to place the blame where it belongs - on his parents. They did not take the steps needed to make themselves and their child citizens.

I own known several people from Cuba and South America (since I live in FL). I know two of them don't consistency sorry for illegal immigrants. My friends busted their butts and paid the $ to become citizens. Why should others receive off the hook without going through the steps?
I honestly don't know what to speak.I am speechless.
All I can say is I really feel for your friend's boyfriend.
I can't even try to imagine what he must be premonition right now.
I hope that he is able to get every entity sorted out as soon as possible so that your friend and her boyfriend can get married and start their new life together minus any more hurdles that they have unfortunately had to travel through.
So, you lack empathy for those who don't empathize with immigrant?

empathy: "the intellectual identification with or vicarious experiencing of the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another"

I've never departed the land of my birth. I don't even have a passport. I have no desire to drop by, let alone move to, another country. For that matter, I have no further desire to move to another bit of the state I currently live in.

I honestly cannot empathize with family who do leave thier homelands. I apreciate the contribution legal immigrants formulate, and I'm glad my ancestors chose to come here, but I can't empathize with them.


I agree that life isn't comfortable for illegal aliens. It's not easy for most criminals. A criminal career involves risk of detection and punishment, it involves compromising your personal integrity, and, as surrounded by the case of your friend's parents, quite possibly visiting the consequences of your crimes on those closest to you.
The problem with illegals is they craft life tough for everyone they drive down wages in what was once perfect paying jobs which makes it harder for people to support their family's they enjoy to go out and get two and three jobs immediately just to make ends meet. Illegals should be looked at only like jobs being outsourced to another country except they are coming here and using our resources costing us money. Don't articulate they do jobs Americans won't because that is a lie put out at hand by the people who employ illegals and don't want to pay a living wage to anybody. So illegals should be sent pay for to where they come from if they can't get jobs near to bad the U.S can't support everyone in the world. They ARE criminals...you said it yourself ILLEGALS I have no problem beside immigrants, its the ones that don't take the time to get her LEGALLY that most general public have issues with. I myself dont understand the populace who have empathy for these criminals. Why not be sympathetic towards other criminals, say rapists or murderers? No not the same but they are adjectives criminals.
It's not supposed to be easy for "illegals". Even tho your friend is in a fruitless spot, his parents should have done something years ago. For that matter, there is zilch keeping him from trying to become a citizen. Even without proper ID, he can still register and go thru those steps. :) I don't mind immigrants. They build the world interesting. It's illegals I have problems with. Why? Because it's ILLEGAL. You do know what illegal medium, right? Against the law? Because people who do not follow the law usually turn up in jail (or deported). I L L E G A L. Look it up.
I hold sympathy for some legal immigrants, but absolutely none for the informal aliens who have invaded our country. What you libs don't seem to realize is that we cannot take surrounded by all of the world's poor. We have to look out for our own. I have sympathy for Americans whose wages enjoy decreased or who can't find a job because of your precious illegal aliens. We our a sovereign nation that have the right and duty to enforce its immigration laws. I have a lot of empathy for immigrant. Legal ones, that is. And I have that empathy because myself and my children are legal immigrant to the US. I empathize completely with the trials of the legal immigration system and beside the people that are going through that. I do not empathize with culture that think they have the right to flout the law and evade that system, foregoing adjectives the medical checks, the background checks and other scrutiny the rest of us have to go through - checks that are at hand as a protection to the USA and her people.

As far as your friend's boyfriend goes, the only empire he can blame for his situation are his parents. They are the ones that chose this life for him, who decided they were above the statute. I do feel some sympathy for the children who are put in to this situation against their will, or even knowledge, but since you said he's just about to get married, he's obviously over 18. His legal status is no longer his parents' responsibility - it's adjectives his.
im with you.those people lately dont know how hard it is to be here working our asses off to survive.im sick of these people mentioning the word forbidden when they clearly know that is an excuse to just hate heck my country be just next door.america is diverse accept it and shut up, linger! Mexico requires certain papers to get a job in attendance? does that mean that since mexicans can counterfeit green cards, drivers licenses, and all sorts of immigration forms here contained by the U.S. to get jobs that they cannot do it in their own country??

Life would be glib for illegals if they would do what they do in our country. PROTEST!!!!! I haven't heard much bitching from mexicans to the mexican government for better wages and living conditions. i basically hear mexicans bitching to OUR Government about THEIR rights.

The old addage "Charity begins at home" should fit here, contained by a way. Go home to mexico, illegals, and get charity.
Your friend can blame his parents. I feel nothing for them. They come here illegally and should pretty much be deported. If you can't understand the difference between legal and illicit, then our dual language education system have failed you.

I'm shocked that a person with your pedagogic background would even attempt your above argument. We already know what position you take on the debate by you labeling these people as "immigrants" while conveniently departure out the "illegal" part.
Well I agree with you, for the most part - there are those that are here because of others. But it is a tricky situation - nearby is the cost factor, but I can't believe illegal immigrants cost this country anymore than the unwed teens that are having babies, the dead-beat dads, those that don't money taxes, those that are in prison - we as tax payers are also paying for them. I just don't close to the attitude people have regarding unconstitutional immigrants, making them seem like they aren't even ethnic group. Yes this country has laws that DO need to be unforced, but my honesty does there have to be so much hatred towards your fellow human man?
I agree with you. I don't know why so heaps people on here have so much hatred against them. I longing your best friend's boyfriend the best. Right now we immigrants are the scapegoat for everything. I came here and worked unyielding, paid taxes, raised 2 kids, got my citizenship, never committed a crime, not even a misdemeanor, worked for DoD---yet, when I chat to people they notice my accent and look down at me resembling I am a piece of second class citizen. It does not bother me no longer, but it shows how ignorant these Americans really are: I speak, read, and write 3 languages fluently, even though I speak one with an accent---how oodles Americans can say that of themselves? I had an excellent education overseas---what it really comes down to is that Americans are plain uneducated. There culture is the best, their way of life is the best, their opinions are the single opinions worth something---you'll always find the exception, but exceptions only prove the rule....the majority of Americans are still that path, even though the "greatest nation on earth" doesn't exist no longer, the "American Dream" pretty much has died---the "richest" nation in this world is almost bankrupt.....it take tolerance and the willingness to accept others to move forward---so most Americans still move backwards.....
Well said! the media is helping the malevolence grow to. There are millions of honest hard working immigrants in this country, but singular the bad ones are talked about. If you catch sight of whenever you put up some positive statistics, you automatically get shot down with thumbs down, and they consider you as criminal to.

They say they are criminals, but why do we own counselor in our jails? They are human beings and they can change, that's why!

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